20 August 2009
Never pretend to love someone just to show him/her sympathy, rather hate him/her.
Miserable is the life of that person whom you sympathize. You’ve no right to show pity to him/her.
This reminds me of a quote which is not exactly related to this but is one on flattery ” When flatterers meet the devil goes to dinner”
20 August 2009
I often recall, “Love is blind” whenever I attend any ‘affair-marriage’ ceremony.
Blindness may be sometimes beneficial in many cases but never in case of love. Because, later, you’ve to pay so much that you might not be prepared for.
Shocking experience, quite shocking!
Many a time I experienced it from many of mind near and dear ones! Got it?
‘Amantes sunt amentes” lovers are lunatics
Not only lunatics but make others lunatics who have not found it yet!
21 August 2009
Only those who have a very low personality, find pleasure in hurting others’ personality.
They try to do it for exposing their fake personality, but always become a laughing stock to others around them.
Some people lack mental strength. They always fear lest their weak point should be revealed. So, they try to attack your personality in a heinous way and try to conceal their mental weakness. I learnt this from my own life. Better, just to ignore their rubbish talks and do what your heart urges you.
Such fellows are always to be pitied. Miserable life they lead thriving on the fate of others!
I don’t care what is truth or what is not. I just care what I feel.
though I have put you down my personality remains strong.
Yea it remains, only to you not to me. That’s what I intended to say.
21 August 2009
. . . . . . . . .enjoying the blue canopy studded with stars. . . . . . Good Night Friends!
22 August 2009
Can anyone suggest me how to cheat time?
just try to cope with the time.
But, how to cheat it?
Cool answer!
Ok, I dare not cheat myself.
Yes, I can help you. Just Turn the Clock in opposite direction for few miniutes!
change your date of birth.
Hmm. . . . . . Now I can guess what you’ve done! Hahaha. . . . . .
22 August 2009
Facebook . . . . . . . a broad canvas for expressing the colour of our life.
It opens when you open it, never opens unless you open it.
যান্ত্রিক জীবনে যান্ত্রিক বন্ধুত্ব। মন্দের ভাল আরকি!
Dost, why do you think it’s better in the midst of ‘bads’? Rather, think it’s the best than the better we could have! 🙂
Heart is Personified himself. Who can control heart?
You can personify your heart in case of FRIENDSHIP (but not in LOVE)………….. Just personify your heart as a king, the brain as a judge or governor……….and be the master of your soul! 🙂
22 August 2009
I don’t care what is truth or what is not. I just care what I feel.
22 August 2009
How to maintain friendship with others? Ans. If they are good to you, be better to them.
22 August 2009
Sometimes, speech is silvery, silence is golden.
Those who have tasted highway once can ever be back to way? Hahahaha!
Depends on the criteria of the situation. . . . . .
22 August 2009
You can never make another person happy if you’re not happy yourself.
Happiness is a relative term. You can be happy living in a shabby hut, or be unhappy living in the midst of immense wealth. So, if you yourself can’t discover that treasure that is around you, how can you dream of helping others discover it?
in internet language you have to hack yourself into the website of your mind and see if you are truly accepting of yourself / if you don’t accept yourself how can you accept another person to accept U
Mind game!
23 August 2009
Life goes on in its own way. It’s beautiful only if we discover its treasures, otherwise not.
Yap………could u announce future life line for the FB a/c holders?!! anything special….?
Yes! I can. Those who haven’t married yet will be married and those who have already will not be again! (if they’ve commonsense!) And this is the happy message that I’ve for my facebook friends.
So, if I have common sense I won’t marry at all.
There’re some aspects of life where desire defeats commonsense!
it’s always beautiful……as long as we can see n feel the beauty
Beauty is on the eyes of the beholders.
Take time to look around you to see the wonders that exist. There are small daily miracles that can be found in your world. Sometimes the worries of the day block our vision, keep us from seeing past our own cares and concern. But if we slow down, we can find that the most important moments of our lives are also the ones most easily missed. How can we find peace in ourselves if we miss the beauty that we walk in?
Breathe
Relax
Take the time to notice.
Your contentment will follow.
I wish for you the time today to find the small treasures of life.
Wow! Superiority of simple thoughts. . . . . . I must admit.
23 August 2009
The best thing to play with, that I’ve ever found in my life, is . . . . . . . . My LIFE !
Life is not a game. . . . . . . .it’s something you can play the game with! 🙂
Life has a lot of similarities with playing a game. The course of a game is decided by the choices we make similarly the game of life is based on the choices we make / play the game right. To quote seneca ” Life’s like a play; it’s not the length but the excellence of the acting that matters”
That excellence reveals the sensibility of our soul.
ভাবনা: চারশো চৌষট্টি
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23 August 2009
কেউ কথা রাখেনি . . . . . .কেউ কথা রাখে না. . . . . . . . . . . . .
. . . Translation: Everybody just promises, nobody keeps it!
কেন কথা দিয়েছিলে তুমি আমার বন্ধু হবে যদি পাশেই না থাকলে?
কথা না রাখার কথা তো ছিল না!
23 August 2009
এই সুন্দর স্বর্ণালি সন্ধায়. . . . . .একি বন্ধনে জড়ালে গো বন্ধু. . . . . . . . . .
Translation: O dear! What a profound love thee induced in my soul at this golden evening!
. . .মেঘেমেঘে অনেক বেলা হয়ে গেলো বটে, কিন্তু প্রজাপতির দুই পক্ষ এক হওয়ার সময় এখনো হয়নি।
23 August 2009
Friends, which is the best movie that you’ve ever seen? (in any language)
Oops! Actually, it’s a difficult task to eliminate others in perspective of film-making. Anyway, ‘Life is Beautiful’ is the best.
Life Is Beautiful, A Walk In The Clouds, Ishwar – Anil Kapoor & Anjali – A Movie About A Cancer Affected Child, The Bicycle Thief, Pother Panchali, Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge, Hothat Brishti, Gladiator, Titanic, SOUND OF MUSIC, LATHI, Godfather, Colour Of Paradise, The Pianist, Tortoises Can Fly, Roman Holiday, The Godfather, The Kite-Runner, I’m Legend, The Last Samurai, 400 Blows, The Forbidden Kingdom, The Reader….My Blueberry Nights…Closer…Volver..Cinema Paradiso…Children Of Heaven…. Joyjattra, ’71, Pother Panchali, Aronner Dinrattri, Antorin, Ajantrik, Pothe Holo Deri. . . . . . . City Of Angels, Anger Management, Bucket List, She’s The Man, Chinatown, Kandahar, 8.5, Eternal Sunshine, The Motorcycle Diaries, Citizen Kane, Taste Of Cherry, Behind Enemy Lines, Memento, The Shawshank Redemption, The Italian Job, The Sixth Sense, The Reader, Taxi Driver, Dead Man, Cinema Paradiso. . . . . . . . . . . . .Becket… The Other Boleyn Girl…Two Women…Onuranon…All Quite On The Western Front…Taxi Driver…Musafir…Aarth..Sarangsh…Mirch Masala… . Vertigo, Braveheart, Umberto D, Irreversible, Uttora, Meghe Dhaka Tara. . . . . ….The Village, The Prestige, Moulin Rouge, Panic Room, Contact, Forrest Gump, Pretty Woman, The Other Side Of Heaven, Good Bye Lenin, The Kid, Ice Age 1,2, Monsters Incorporated, When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless In Syatal, Monalisa Smile, Dead Poets Society, Good Morning Vietnam, Pach Adams…(bt can’t stop mentioning life is beautiful n d pianist again!). . . . . .
Some other note-worthy: Moulin Rouge, Gone With the Wind, The Notebook, Dirty Dancing, Pride and Prejudice, Shakespeare in Love, Pretty Woman, Sweet November, A Walk to Remember, Serendipity, You’ve Got Mail, Memories of Geisha, Mamma Mia!. . . . . . . . .
. . . . . Wow! I also watched many of those, just forgot the names. Thanks for your list. I surely will watch the movies that I’ve not watched yet in your list. Thanks again! 🙂
A Beautiful Mind, Da Vinchi Code, Da Angles & Demons, Face Off, Whole Series Of Harry Potter, Lord Of The Rings, Matlida, Whole Series Of Matrix, Die Another Day,…..Devdas, Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, Kabhi Khusi Kabhi Gham, Tum Bin, Saathiya….Chapa Danger Bou, Sareng Bou,…
. . . . . Thanks a lot for the mentioning. I’ve watched some of those already, but haven’t some yet. Your list would help me, I think so. Thank you again.
TERO NODIR PARE, Rang De Basanti, Black, Slamdog Millionaire. . . . . . .The Savior, Haranosur, Monpura, Soptopodi, Deyaneya, Matir Moyna, Jibon Theka Nea, Kaal Ho Na Ho, KKH, KKKG, DDLG, RNBDJ, Lagan, Bhulbhulaiya, Gajnini, Braveheart, Underworld 1,2,3, Troy, Forbidden Kingdom, James Bond, Titanic, A Walk In The Clouds, Transporter, Transformers, Speed, Matrix, Spider Man, Bend It Like Beckham, Pearl Harbor, I Robot, Terminator, Mission Impossible, Around The World In 80 Days, Twenty Thousands Leagues Under The Sea, Mysterious Island, Hollow Man, Invisible Man, League Of The Extra Ordinary Gentleman, Tremor, Godzilla, Jurassic Park, King Kong, Finding Nemo, Shrek, Time Machine, Amitabh Bacchan Movies, Shahrukh Khan Movies, Amir Khan Movies, Kajol Movies, Srabon Megher Din, Shashur Bari Zindabad, Hothath Brishti, Godzilla Vs King Kong, Knight Rider, Honey I Shrunk The Kids, Honey I Blow The Kids, Honey We Shrunk Ourselves, God Must Be Crazy, Pink Panther, Indiana Zones, Desparedo, Sangkhonil Karagarar, Mere Yaar Ki Shadi Hai, Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, Dil Waale Dulhania Le Jayenge Hum, Dil Ka Rishta, Ishwar, Andha Kanoon, Akheri Rasta, Tufan, Jadugar, Bazigar, Chamatkar, Anjali, Shahenshah, Khabhi Khushi Khabhi Gham, Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi, Dostana…
War Of The Worlds, Legally Blonde, Brave Heart, Predator, Patriot, Journey To The Centre Of The Earth, Jab We Met, Love In America (The First Bangla Movie I Enjoyed In Cinema Hall), Bridge On The River Kawai, Godfather, Cassender Crossing, Burning Train, Forty Grapes For Forty Guns, Deep Blue Sea, Jaws, The Vinci Code, Star Wars, The Three Stooges, Stuart Little , Satte Pe Satta, Back To The Future, Sing Is King, Love In Singapure, Sareng Bou, Golapi Ekhon Train E, Asoni Shongket, Harano Sur, Ogo Badhu Shundori, Heyy Baby, Onm Shanti Om, Nayok (Uttom Kumar), Nayok (Anil Kapoor), Shapmachon, Titanic, Sagorika, Pothe Halo Deri, Good Bad And Ugly, Little Mermaid, Water Horse, Water World, Star Trek, Bionic Woman, She Will Follow You Everywhere…. To Be Continued……
Indecent Proposal is another movie which I like but I would recommend that only for adults. The theme is good and thought provoking. The theme is about body and soul.
23 August 2009
Losing one’s heart for someone is probably the only loss in the world that always gains something.
heart related issues sometimes require bypass surgery
Psychological by-pass surgery?
ভাবনা: চারশো পঁয়ষট্টি
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24 August 2009
“If a tree falls in the forest and no one is there to hear it, does it make a sound?” – Bishop George Berkeley (1685 – 1753)
As an idealist, Berkeley believed that nothing is real but minds and their ideas. Ideas do not exist independently of minds. Through a complicated and flawed line of reasoning he concluded that “to be is to be perceived.” Something exists only if someone has the idea of it.
Though he never put the question in the exact words of the famous quotation, Berkeley would say that if a tree fell in the forest and there was no one (not even a squirrel) there to hear it, not only would it not make a sound, but there would be no tree.
The good news is, according to Berkeley, that the mind of God always perceives everything. So, the tree will always make a sound, and there’s no need to worry about blipping out of existence if you fall asleep in a room by yourself.
What is not perceived also lacks the cognizance of human perception, so, nothing matters whether it exists or not; we can never acknowledge that agent or phenomenon. But, now I think the problem is, if it really happens and presumably God experiences it, then to give the concreteness of this happening, we’ve to experience the existence of God. Is this possible at all?
But the problem is regardless of Pre- or Post-neurobiological stage, I think so. For example, the belief of the existence of God is an idea that breeds many paradoxical notions.
The question of the eleventh thread of my status is still haunting my brain. What’s the answer to that?
Something exists or happens. . . . . . .this is conjectured through human brain and on this basis, works neuro-biology. Now, if some natural phenomenon occurs beyond the contemplation of human brain, (let’s not consider here the cognizance of so-called God!) should it be considered or not? If we cannot experience something, how comes the question of contemplating it? Well, as it actually happens, despite beyond our perception, what should be interpreted about that? This is the keypoint of my concern.
24 August 2009
‘If you try to fail but succeed, then what have you actually done?’
Paradoxical. . . . .
you have become a successful failure
Thanks for the compliment!!!
24 August 2009
Life is not always fair but is always meaningful. Friends, Agree? or, Disagree?
Friends! Could you suggest anymore ideas that support the paradox?
Life is not fair, get used to it.
Sorry, I differ. It is not that Life is not fair, rather, Life is not ALWAYS fair. @Shumona.
Actually, I think no experience is either good or, bad. We define an experience good if our heart responds to it otherwise not. @Brazi.
Life is more meaningful than we can imagine, but unfortunately, less unfair than we usually dream.
everything has a meaning when you pose one on it.
Well. Then, what about ambiguous or, equivocal thoughts?
when any meaning sprouts forth is anything unspoken?
Hmm. . . . . . . You know, that tells the best which is unspoken, that sounds the best which is unheard.
Meaningful is a subjective term and you can reduce everything to meaningful if you so like. Again, if something is meaningful it can also be considered fair hence the statement stands disproved
No buddy. If we lose something that we deserve or should deserve can we term it as ‘fair’? Who cares whether it is meaningful or not for others? We always think regarding our own way, to speak plainly . . . . . interest.
24 August 2009
The world would be a better place without ________________???
Hypocrites.
war
girls……..
ক্ষুদ্র মানসিকতার / নোংরা চিন্তার মানুষ না থাকলে….
money
Fanatics…they are taking away peace from everyone’s lives
social discrimination
Religion
‘Premika’ but not ‘bou’
ego… I agree.
What about…………….QUESTION ?!
hunger!
Racism?
God-based Religion. . . . . . . .that leads the world to war. . . . . .
Disease!!!
nihilist!!!??!!!
Not Nihilism. . . . . .rather the false socialism that emerged after nihilism in Russia and demolished it!
Friends, what about ‘lack of confidence’. . . . . . . .the devil within you?
. . . . Which question seems awkward to you?
Another potential threat. . . . . . . . The fanatic fundamentalists. . . .
All kinds of violence.
Man cannot create a single worm, yet he can create gods by dozen. . . . . . . . . . . . . Hence, another threat. . . . MAN-CREATED GODS ! ! !
the world would be a better place if we stopped watching any news about violence / if we do not know – it does not exist
Hahahaha. . . . . . . Chanak. . . . . . I’d request you to read my status and the relevant comments that I posted about 10 hours ago. You’ll not regret after reading those, I guarantee. Please read those and give me a solution of my last question of that entire comment thread if you can!!!
without ME / cos I add to its woes
Now, I’d like to arise a question. Friends, some of you stated ‘WAR’ as a threat. Can anyone please tell me which is/are the cause(s) associated with war? I’ve thinking for a few days about it.
WIFE…….
Human being.
If no human existed, who would ask such question and contemplate conjectures?
Wife? . . . . . Well. But you can hardly defeat desire by logic! Huh!
inhuman pretensions selfish, manupilative people
Well. Now think, if all people of the world become selfish, manipulative, pretentious, then the world would be better for that group of people. So, no fear of ‘a worse world’ !
I was gonna say, without “me”
. . . . . No problem, whether the world is misses you or not. I’m here in the world. . . . . . . .your perfect soulmate. The condition will remain the same! Hahahahahaha. .
money
Money. . . . .the second God. . . . . Well, but I’ll leave that provided that all people of the world will also do that! lol
doubts, worries, unhappiness, illness and sorrows
WAR, my dear Sushanta, is an atavistic throwback and has its roots in the early stages of man’s development when he had to use force to survive. this instinct still remains with us. The state after all is a collection of individuals
. . . . . . Not always by the atavistic instinct rather often by the impulse to show the supremacy over all the nations and to daunt effort and to destroy the spinal infrastructure of a state, War is occurred.
. . . . . . Money? Well, if there were no money in the world, I wonder whether they would exist any acceptable means of delegation, though existed, how could it function properly!
The big fish eat the smaller fish who eat the smaller fry
And this unending tragic story goes on. . . . . . . .
Crime and war.
ভাবনা: চারশো ছেষট্টি
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25 August 2009
Friends! If you could describe a perfect life with just three words, what would they be?
Collection of Experience of feeling
Life is beautiful
Music, music and music!
just forward yours….word…W+W+W…=?…i thnk u can realise…
health, peace and love
The one you love, loaf of bread and the moon!
Analogous! lol. . .
wine women and wealth
. . . . . . . You know, Art is a lie that breeds the greatest truths in the world!
25 August 2009
Life is beautiful
Friends! Could you please suggest me another three words to describe ‘LIFE’?
Life is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again. So enjoy every moment of life..
Collection of experience of feelings
জীবনের নানা রূপ, একেক সময় একেক রূপ ধারণ করে।
কখনো আনন্দময়, কখনো বিষাদমাখা, কখনো অসহ্য, কখনো ক্লান্তিমাখা, কখনো আরামদায়ক, এরকম আরো অনেক রূপ জীবনের। এক জীবনে মানুষের সবগুলো হয়তোবা দেখতেও পারে না।
Life is not difficult, life is not easy, life is like life. We make it difficult or, easy.
Sorry for Arpita. (Maybe another greater opportunity is waiting for u. I believe that in a person’s life, a door is never closed without opening a window :-))
…………..জীবনটা শুধু হিসেবের কল্পনা………..কল্পনাতে নাহয় রঙ একটু বেশিই থাকল………….কী-ই বা এসে যায় তাতে?……যদি ক্ষতিতেই হয় সুখ………..হোক না একটু ক্ষতি…………..ক্ষতি কী?
so true!……………………..“One cannot step twice in the same river.” – Heraclitus (ca. 540 – ca. 480 BCE)
…………..something is meaning only when you make or consider it meaningful!…………..
25 August 2009
“One cannot step twice in the same river.” – Heraclitus (ca. 540 – ca. 480 BCE)
Heraclitus definitely isn’t alone here. His message was that reality is constantly changing it’s an ongoing process rather than a fixed and stable product. Buddhism shares a similar metaphysical view with the idea of annica, the claim that all reality is fleeting and impermanent.
In modern times Henri Bergson (1859 – 1941) described time as a process that is experienced. An hour waiting in line is different from an hour at play. Today contemporary physics lends credence to process philosophy with the realization that even apparently stable objects, like marble statues, are actually buzzing bunches of electrons and other subatomic particles deep down.
25 August 2009
“We live in the best of all possible worlds.” – Gottfried Wilhelm Leibniz (1646 – 1716)
Voltaire’s famous novel Candide satirizes this optimistic view. And looking around you right now you may wonder how anyone could actually believe it. But Leibniz believed that before creation God contemplated every possible way the universe could be and chose to create the one in which we live because it’s the best.
The principle of sufficient reason holds that for everything, there must be sufficient reason why it exists. And according to Leibniz the only sufficient reason for the world we live in is that God created it as the best possible universe. God could have created a universe in which no one ever did wrong, in which there was no human evil, but that would require humans to be deprived of the gift of free wills and thus would not be the best possible world.
– that means you are stuck in a local optimum (local best) at the moment … once you find the global optimum, then you will agree 🙂
No matter! Locally optimum variables of life will soon tend to universally accepted criterion.
Man created God in his own way, you know!!!!!!
Exactly Sushanta, we believe things when we don’t know the truth. Have we seen God? -no, I don’t think the creator would ever mind if we try to understand his work … can’t imagine that He has a tiny heart like ourselves.
Cool! Tiny heart? Prior to that comes the existence of heart! lol.
Yeah, most of us think that God will be unhappy, angry etc. if we try to analyse his work in order to replicate a tiny bit of it or else. But with blind belief we can only think limited anyways, that is why we think God acts like ourselves.
The world is what we make of it.
Shaped and biased largely by the way in which our soul accepts it.
ভাবনা: চারশো সাতষট্টি
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25 August 2009
If you have to kill one person to save another thousand ones, is it fair to do that or not?
How can killing a person be fair?
But if the person is one of your near and dear ones, then?
If you’ve to kill an innocent person to save another thousand, then?
at that particular moment what my inner mind say, I will follow………n ready for fulfill my Karma.
Sometimes our heart stops responding in such a situation.
this is not heart thing but ask mind n follow inner mind …
Psychological response works only in subconscious mind. When you’re tensed on the spur of the moment, how can your heart work spontaneously?
You brought here the context of auto-suggestion. But sometimes this stops working when our brain collapses. Then what should you do?
can u do all these in that situation?
Doesn’t the Gita address this?
Right u r!……………Sreekrishna to Arjun.
killing a person…………..fair??
if thousand lives would be lost otherwise then yes / we have to act and act decisively / the head has to rule here and not the heart
Greatest good of the greatest number ( bentham )
How can we kill the person if that killing might be suicidal for the state?
you mean to say that there are many more lives which could be saved bcoz of that one person and that these thousand lives are to sacrificed. In that case save him (Jeremy Bentham to the rescue again)
If the choice is left before that just after his rescue the wretched thousand others will meet their tragic doom, then what measure should you suggest?
it is simply a numbers game / communist philosophy buddy
Trying to divert. . . . . Huh!. . . Diplomatic Chanak!
don’t kill him if quite a lot of lives can be saved than that which is lost
Then what about the helpless thousands that are going to die?
They have to die to save millions / that is how it is during war times – thousands of soldiers die so that a nation may be saved
But you’re here to take the decision. Have you nothing to do in this case?
25 August 2009
Friends! What’s your view on this quote by Arthur C. Clarke . . . . “The greatest tragedy in mankind’s entire history may be the hijacking of morality by religion.” ?
Ok. . . . . I’m clarifying this notion. The main culprit is God-based Religion instead of Mankind-based Religion. Now got the point?
Dear Sushanta – let us get our concepts right. There is something called reason and something called faith. To assume that everything falls within the realm of reason is to have a short-sighted view of things. Hence some things fall in the realm of faith.
Morality is a code of conduct and codes of conduct are in the interests of society and are to dictated by reason and not by faith hence it follows that morality is not to be dictated by religion but rather by reason.
………that was a very good explanation, only few of us can see it through like this … ignorance and fear towards uncertainty made it happen “hijacking morality by religion”. Laziness or may be lack of interest in becoming the ODD one amongst mankind helps it grow.
And as it goes on miserably, it must be checked through the refinement of our sensibility and only then a distilled crystal-like faith will work on the advantage of the growth of the world.
………we have let morality be hijacked by religion. religion is only useful as a refreshment for the mind and nothing more. it has a psychological effect and it should be limited to that only.
………we are too lazy to take action / we are talkers not doers.
Nicely interpreted!
25 August 2009
Friends! According to your opinion, what does a girl/woman like most in a boy/man?
woman likes getting everything she wants, from one man
only Care……………..
What about wealth?
26 August 2009
Neither weigh my thoughts, nor measure my words. . .keep what is worth-keeping, and with the breath of kindness blow the rest away. . . . And be my friend . . . FOREVER .
26 August 2009
কেন চুপিচুপি ছুটেচলা,/ একাএকা কথাবলা,/ নিজের জন্যে বাঁচা নিজেকে নিয়ে/ যদি ভালোবাসা না-ই থাকে, / শুধু একাএকা লাগে / কোথায় শান্তি পাবো ……… কোথায় গিয়ে ……… বলো, কোথায় গিয়ে…..
Translation: Why this eternal rat-race?
Why endless series of monologues?
Living on, this self-centered life
if there is no love
only empty loneliness
Where can I get a dollop of peace?
Where can I?
26 August 2009
The advantage of a bad memory is that one enjoys several times the same good thing for the first time. – Friedrich Nietzsche
which good thing
. . . . . . . . Can’t remember!
guess we both should take some memory enhancing tablets
Ok. But we’re both unmarried. Then who’ll remind us the dose of the medicine?
which medicine
ha ha ha … short time memory loss it seems, you two … both of you need help … just remember ONE THING … ask your parents to get yourselves married asap before you forget this SINGLE THING.
Which single thing?
I knew that you will forget … let me think about “how would we solve the problem with Sushanta and Chanak?”
wht problem?
stop that now Sushanta!!! otherwise you definitely need a seat in Pabna .
What should I stop Ms. . . . . . . (shit! forgot it!)
Don’t worry bro … you don’t have to remember anything … Pabna is guaranteed .
Ok. I’ve faith on your own experience! Hihihi. . . . . . .
My experience won’t help but the doctors who deal with psyco …
OMG! You’ve got an experience already. Congrats.
You are a gone case, no doubt … Who you congratulate to and what for??
Congratulate for. . . . . . . . . .sorry can’t remember!
Don’t worry, Sushanta, I have another friend who has the same symptoms like you. We can treat both of you together.
Well. But, what symptoms? What treatment are you talking about?
Don’t worry … you just take rest. You don’t need to worry or think about anything sweetheart.
hi it is nice scrapping on facebook / first time buddy…
ভাবনা: চারশো আটষট্টি
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26 August 2009
Why should I go to Heaven? All the interesting people are missing from there.
It’s better to live with funny interesting people than to live with dumb good people. Good people go to heaven to make it dull, interesting people go to hell to make it lively. So, let’s go to Hell. 🙂
Heaven is a cool place with dumb guys but Hell is a dumb place with cool guys.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions they say. is this one of those good intentions?
The more intellectual you’re the closer to Hell. . . . . . . . . .according to the doctrines of the so-called ‘Holy Books’.
Existence of heaven/hell arguable but if they exist, in my view, indeed that would be the case as you have stated Sushanta, can’t think otherwise…
I heard recently that hell is a better place than earth.
It’s better to stay only with cool people than to stay with both cool and dumb.
If you think that hell is better than haven by interesting people, so go to hell first. Don’t encourage others to go there. You and your interesting people can live there.
Ok. Goody goody man! lolz.
26 August 2009
What is a good advice? Ans. A good advice is something to which we should listen attentively and wait for another one.
26 August 2009
What a good thing Adam had – when he said a good thing, he knew nobody had said it before. – Mark Twain.
And the vice versa is also true.
26 August 2009
Make money and the whole world will conspire to call you a gentleman.
In this sense, every materialistic matter in the world is a ‘may be or may not be’ case!
The poor are always ‘bloody rustics’ in the eye of the rich!
if they are uneducated it will make it easier for me call them gentlemen and gently move their money to my account and then deny that they are gentlemen if they protest.
Cool answer! lol.
money can talk but education can show path how to use ur precious money in the right way most of them knows how to use their money in right way but gentleman who is only educated he knows how to live like a loveable life with in their valuable money and he does not like to take a simple eye-side how about the uneducated people’s money….!!!!!
An educated man’s money is like treasures in the safe, you can steal it only by robbery. An uneducated man’s money is like wealth in a hidden treasure, you can get it if you have commonsense.
u r right if educated person’s money will disappear, they cannot take it by easy but uneducated people’s money will misplace or disappear then they will think about that destroy…. that’s why money can talk base on the particular person’s mentality…….!!!!!!
Sometimes personality speaks matching with the weight of money. Study the lifestyle of the rich persons.
27 August 2009
Never accept friend request from an unknown person who has not even a friend. He/She might be dangerous.
I don’t agree with you / that is a virtual blanket ban on anyone entering facebook.
. . . . . . A person who have no friends might either be an angel or a devil. And in this case, I think I’m not young enough to learn everything for communicating with him/her.
. . . . . . . Yea. From my personal experience and the experience gathered from others.
Old relationship is golden, new ones are silvery. I’d rather preserve the gold and desert the avarice of getting silver.
Right in many cases causing many embarrassing situations.
যে অজানা অনুভূতি আপনার জীবনটাকে আপনার নিজের কাছেই অচেনা করে দিতে পারে, সেটিকে আপন করে নেয়াটা কি বুদ্ধিমানের কাজ?
It’s ur personal opinion. now u have enough friend, do u know everybody in previous days?
would u plz read the previous threads?
I agree but “Never” and “Might” are two contradictory words.
‘never’ here stands for ‘ my emphasis’……….’might’ for ‘your opinion’ on that.
yes hacking is a real problem on social networking sites / don’t accept anyone without knowing who they are/ by the by – I am wondering why I accepted you as a friend.
Sushanta Paul Please read the previous threads and my status message once again for your solution.
27 August 2009
love rules without rules but not without a ruler. so, you are an unruly lover
No problem. I’ve a ruly lover.
That wasn’t quite the answer against Chanak’s statement Sushanta, ঝেড়ে কাশো, বাবা!
depends on who your girlfriend is / if it is me then I will set a lot of rules.
Why thanking God Sushanta?
he is thanking God that tripti is my girlfriend and not his?
a lot of rules! May God bless you!
cool now pray for Chanak then and I presume Sushanta is not envious.
Ahem, ahem! Envious? What’s that? Lol.
Tripti ……
Rule No . 1 – you will not look at any girl other than me
Rule No. 2 – don’t forget rule no.1
Rule 3. Don’t forget the previous two.
he he he … Tripti, the only way to keep your relationship alive is to make Chanak blind …
Yet to be? I don’t think so! Lol.
27 August 2009
My doctor gave me six months to live, but when I couldn’t pay the bill, he gave me six months more. – Walter Mattbau
Knock! Knock! Where are my doctor friends?
Hmm. . . . . I’m sure none of you are a doctor. Anyway, I’ve got a good suggestion on how to live long! Now, I’m gonna manage a good doctor for my doctor.
ভাবনা: চারশো উনসত্তর
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27 August 2009
Life is short. If I spend whole of it in just compromising, when will I enjoy it?
So far as I’ve seen until now, both compromising and enjoying life seldom go hand in hand. Would I get another life so that I can spare this one? Why should I only think that I’m happy instead of being really happy? Never do I and will I!
I’ve already hopefully replaced all “have to’s” with “are to’s” in my life.
You can die hundred times before your death.
27 August 2009
Politics is more dangerous than War. In War, people are killed only once, but in Politics, several many times.
In politics you have several divisions including right and left but in the case of war we do not know who is right we only know who are left
Cool !. . . . . . . . Politics is the art of solving problems ensued from it and in the name of solving making them vulnerable to more problems.
Well, in ancient times there weren’t any written policies now we have POLITICS – full of policies most of what I don’t understand with my tiny brain … I am not ready for raising this question 😛 All of it is bad, war/politics but we don’t have any other choice either.
politics means that you are not seeing others though you are not blind, you are not hearing others though you are not deaf and you are not realizing others though you are not without brain, or are you?
. . . . . . If we throw a comparative glance at the political view of the ancient Romans, we’ll find that today’s politics is largely biased on the heinous instinct of thriving on the blood of others. Again, a severe line of contrast exists in today’s politics, on the context of a comprehensive study of Aristotle’s viewpoints on the origin and development of Politics. Nowadays, politics is something that you feel worth-adopting for meeting your own means, regardless of whatever you should adopt in the truest sense of the term ‘POLITICS’. And, I further would like to mention here that War is often meant for categorized political issues, not often for real crisis that should lead to it.
u r not in the track, politics was generated to make the mob shut their mouth…and to rule them in a way the so-called leaders like, others is a show only. Search in the history the proof will be there.
I differ. Politics was originally institutionalized to introduce a devised way to run the affairs of the state in Greece, Rome, Syria, Egypt, some parts of Indian Sub-continent etc. In course of time, with the various dimensional alteration and modification of this universally acclaimed concept, it came to the present state. It’s like a lump of mud. . . . . . .you can give any concrete shape to it as you wish. (reference-Aristotle, John Stuart Mill, Rousseau)
I didn’t do this much research Sushanta, but I agree that the intervene of Politics wasn’t expected to take the shape we see now. But, when you have a tool, and that is used by people with diverse intellectual/ignorance level, this is what is to happen anyways. That is why Utopia is desired. A total global equilibrium which is still a far far away dream!
A Utopia we dream of. . . . . .never comes true, rather better to say, we don’t allow to come. To reach even a partial equilibrium, we need to reshape the present dimension of politics and of course the political tools, and only then hopefully we can see the glow of hope. War and hunger will, though not disappear, reduce to a greater extent. We’re awaiting that auspicious moment.
Global equilibrium is far alone, I think, even partial equilibrium is impossible. Because, persons are even not partially equal by their creativity. Don’t think that I’m inspired by “MINE CAMF’ of Adolph Hitler. But from that book I got some good points, though those points are against us & in favour of Arians. Reshaping the present dimension of politics is also not a solution, because it’s not a political issue. How can u wish for partial or full equilibrium as the merit of human is not even partially equal. Politics never tries to bring equilibrium in between humans. Positive abolition of private property for equi is not any solution. Few states tried to bring equilaterally, but was failed (like USSR). Politics just deals ( or speaks) for fundamental demands of human life, though misused. Politics has a lot of negative points. But without politics u cannot express your views openly (like Myanmar). Human rights are totally ruined without politics.
politics is the starting point of war or to rephrase it ” war is the result of poor politics”
Vice versa.
28 August 2009
Friends! Let’s be born every moment!
Not necessarily, Abed, some unfulfilled dreams from past can be realized! Wudnt that be nice!
Let’s not stick to what we were born with. If the treasure we were born with, is silvery, let’s turn it to golden. Let the prejudices be altered to refined cultures soon before they turn to superstitions. Let the people who found us dumb yesterday, find us cool today. If the world is better today, let’s turn it to best. Let’s not walk today in the same way our forefathers waked yesterday if the path needs further change.
No, not all instilled by them, we irresponsibly contribued to a great extent. The more we get civilized, the more we head towards disasters. @Zia vai.
Only when you’re gifted with good virtues, you are called born. When you’re not, you’re called to meet death once before the last one.
28 August 2009
I dare not ask a kiss, / I dare not beg a smile, / Lest having that, or this, / I might proud of the while. // No, no, the utmost share / Of my desire shall be / Only to kiss that air / That lately kissed her.
O you whom I often and silently come where you are that I may be with you.
As I walk by your side or sit near, or remain in the same room with you.
Little you know the subtle electric fire that for your sake is playing within me.
