Friendship

Thank you, I'm not going to start traditionally, I'm not going to start unconventionally, I'm not going to start at all...




A lot of people think I'm a very private person, and I don't just let someone in. I will not refute this claim from my side, for they are right. Not everyone accepts people as quickly and with such frivolity as many others. They're often disappointed, but they don't really know what they're made of. This brings me to the question of why we classify people into certain thought categories that are not written anywhere, but we know how to treat certain people correctly (at least in theory).




As a child, we were surrounded by a lot of friends, while the older you get, the more you categorize your friends, and many childhood camaraderies decline. In fact, I don't even know why a lot of people we used to get along with are disappearing from our lives. Nevertheless, I believe that every person has friends to turn to with certainty and feeling that he will not be austerely turned away.




The word 'trust' is very important, I will leave it to you what you imagine under this concept in the field of friendship. Let's think about how we treat certain people, how much we notice them and appreciate what they mean to us, etc. These and many other questions are good to answer over time, truthfully and honestly. There is no point in lying to yourself because as a result, it will lead to your disappointment, stress and often depression.




The cornerstone of friendship is trust and respect. Surprisingly, some friendships include personal contact and intimacy. I don't mean any groping and passionate kissing or anything like that. I mean friendly sacrifice, caress, words...




For example, a very sociable, sporty person is rarely friends with an intellectual who likes to be alone and likes to watch the stars, even if the fact is that opposites attract. In school, friendships arise that sometimes last until late in life, but this is a rarity. We may have many friends, but few of them can be described as "friend." That doesn't change the fact that a friendship based on school-age can't last, but few of them say they're real friends after 20, 30 years. Although I have been thinking for quite some time as to why this is the case, I think it is not appropriate to consider it. Time will tell...




Many people think they have a strong friendship with a person and suddenly there's a crisis, and they don't know what to do next. They don't know how to deal with it, and it usually ends the friendship. When this situation happens, I don't think we can talk about "friendship." It often happens, especially in the student period, that one jumps, in folk terms, a spark, and friendship is either love or usually the end of a friendship. My theory about this problem is that it doesn't avoid most student friendships between the opposite sex, but it's up to us how we consider the situation and rethink our relationships with the person.




In my own experience, I can say that this also happened to me, and yet it did not mean the end of the friendship, but the start of a strengthening force. It gave us both a hard time, but in the end, we solved this problem, and we're still very good friends. And with me, I can talk about the word "liberty."




This brings me to the next question; and why we refer to someone with the supposed label "liberty" friend? In my opinion, this is nonsense. Every friendship is different, which is why we can't mark someone with the word "liberty."




Friendship is not only about solving mutual problems, but also "exercises" our ability to perceive, understand, feel, think... Every man needs friendship. It happens that in his entire life someone will never find such a person with whom he would share his joys and worries, and to whom he could tell all his secrets, but I hope that such people are like saffron, because life without a friend, it seems to me, would be harder and sadder. Friendship is a great and integral part of human happiness.




From practice and observation, I can say that the best and longest friendships are always the ones that have a long and difficult path to happiness. The result is a true, strong and deep friendship that is as important to life as love or family.




You may have noticed that I kept repeating the word friends, friends, friends... You can think about the reason and if you have any, please be informed that I wrote those words because it just had to be there as sometimes, "In the end, your best friend will betray you..."




The last thing, and I think the most important thing, is to explain the word FRIENDSHIP. Maybe you're asking why at the end. It's simple. Many of you have certainly inferred this from this reading, and that is the most important thing. Friendship is something that takes away the feeling that we're on our own...

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